Have you ever been out to eat at a restaurant and the couple next to you hasn't said one word the entire meal? I once went on a date to a BBQ place and as I ordered my moonshine, a couple came and sat kiddie corner to our table so I had a front row seat into this awkward shitstorm of a date. This couple had to have been dating for years because the guy literally acted like he was on a date with his wilting, old grandma. He was on his phone the ENTIRE date. I couldn't help but look at the poor girl who was obviously so embarassed that her relationship had gotten to the point where NHL On Demand during a nice meal was more important than her. I couldn't even focus on my date any longer as my mind was consumed about what they're sex must be like. How they must view it as a chore and say, "it's Wednesday honey - you promised"! Jesus, put a bullet in my head if I ever have to schedule my sex routine with my significant other.
How about that couple that literally never goes out anymore? Nothing is worse than dating a home-hobbit. I've had many friends fall into this trap. I mean, I get it - it's so much easier to just stay in, order chinese food, watch Netflix and listen to your boyfriend rip ass all night. But come on - most of us reading this blog are in our 20s or early 30s. Regardless of age - you should be out doing shit together. For me, the funnest part of a relationship is going out and going on reckless adventures together. Being young and stupid... together. I was talking to this lady who's in her early 50s and she put shit into perspective for me. She said she and her husband of 30 year just took a random road trip to Nashville last weekend because they used to love going on road trips together when they were younger. So they just packed up, headed down to Nashville, and she said they drank, ate and watched live music all weekend. If this bitch in her 50s can do this, there's no reason why your 20-something ass can't do it!
Just because you're in a relationship, it doesn't mean the world has to end. You should be into your own shit, have your own friends and your own life. Nothing is more attractive to a significant other than when you say, "I'm going out with the girls/guys tonight". Be a unavailable sometimes - it's okay to not have your boyfriend hanging off your tit everytime you go to the bar. Plain and simple - just stop being so fucking boring.