I've been thinking a lot about relationship dynamics and what makes a person drawn to another. What I've come to realize is that the crazy bitches somehow always have a boyfriend. My only question is, how?
I ran into an old "friend" the other weekend when I went home. I use the word friend very loosely as this is the same girl that accused me of sleeping with her boyfriend roughly two years ago which ended our friendship. I know many of you readers that don't know me and that only make comments about my sex life probably agree with her. But, the people that know me know that obviously this girl smoked a little too much crack if she thinks that actually happened. Not to mention, this dude had just gotten out of jail for "child indecency". Fucked.
However, I saw her the other weekend. She had put on a considerable amount of weight and generally had given up on her appearance. But, she seemed happy. She was there with her new boyfriend. I asked how they met. Oh, they met online... Playing Call of Duty on XBOX. And this dude wasn't that bad looking. I just sat there stunned, like, how is someone like me, semi-normal, good head on their shoulders, relativity drama-free, still single and this bitch (who put on a ski mask when we were in high school in the middle of the night, poured sugar down her boyfriend's gas tank and broke into another boyfriend's house a couple months later) has a boyfriend all the time? The sex must be off the fucking charts.
And I'm always hearing how dudes stick with these women despite them going Bride of Chuckie psycho on their ass.
How about the one time I was dating my ex and we went over to his friend's place who shared an apartment with his fiancé. After a night of drinking, we all went back to their place where the other couple engages in a fist fight over text messages. She throws the phone across the room and it literally misses my forehead by inches. The phone is now embedded into to wall. I'm holding "A" back while my ex was holding "R" back from cutting each other's throats while she is weilding a butter knife in her hand saying "Imma cut you!" How do you think this story ends? Let me tell you- they are now married and bought a house they can't afford in the quiet suburbs of Chicago. I would literally pay to be a fly on their wall.
I refuse to turn psycho just to gain the attraction of a male. But, as time goes on, I can't help to notice that some dudes are just attracted to the drama and crave the constant roller coaster ride.
I would love to get a male's perspective on this.